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The Rest of the Speech

Secondhand Lions, film, 2003

The inspiration behind the name of the Second-Hand Tigers Organization

Secondhand Lions is a film about two aging veterans (Hub and Garth) who adopt and raise their abandoned nephew (Walter). Midway through the film a group of four punks harass the trio in a diner, and a fight ensues.

After the fight scene ends with Hub the clear victor, the film cuts to a scene of Hub, Garth, and Walter pulling up to their house followed by a car with the young men Hub fought. They all get out and it would appear that they made up, albeit noticeably bruised, and after a brief exchange with a visiting relative, Garth asks the young men if they want to stay for dinner. A short while later Garth and Walter are talking in the foreground; Hub is seen in the background talking to the young men.

WALTER: What's he saying to them? GARTH: He's giving them his... ..."What every boy needs to know about being a man" speech.

Later in the movie, Hub gives a part of that speech to Walter:

HUB: Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things that a man needs to believe in the most. That people are basically good. That honor, courage, and virtue mean everything... That good always triumphs over evil... True or not... those are the things worth believing in.

Later in the film, Walter asks when he'll hear the rest of the speech; Hub tells him: when he's almost a man — the exchange this page and the organization take their name from.

How it relates to my approach to life and career

The entirety of this film is about mentoring, and the need to step up and give mentoring when it is needed. To step forward and be the youth sports coach when no one else will. To position the next generation to be ready to take the reins when it is their time and to trust that they can do it.

It is a mentor's moral responsibility to prepare the next generation to lead, and encourage them to practice leadership that they are capable of and will stretch them. The training guidance given to adult leaders in Girl Scouts was to tie a string around one thumb if the leader did something one or more of the girls were capable of doing or leading. If the leader did it again, the leader tied a string on the other thumb. And if the leader did it yet again, they were to tie the strings together.

If what you are doing is not a learning opportunity for you anymore, but is a learning opportunity for someone else, don't rob them of that opportunity.


References


Related: Mentoring Integration with Stage Development


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