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Only What You Take With You

When we face challenges, our gut reaction may be to blame other people and external forces. This is often wide of the mark — ourselves and the choices we made. I made several self-inflicted blunders that cost me two job offers. Over the years, honest self-reflection, candid feedback, and guidance from mentors helped me identify and address the enemy within.

Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back, film, 1980

During his training on Dagobah, Luke senses something wrong near a cave in the swamp. Yoda tells him it is strong with the dark side, and that he must go in. (YouTube clip)

LUKE: What's in there? YODA: Only what you take with you.

Luke starts to strap on his weapons belt to go in. Yoda tells him he won't need them. Luke looks at his lightsaber and blaster, considers Yoda's advice, and takes them anyway.

Inside the cave, Luke is confronted by a vision of Darth Vader. They fight, and Luke strikes the vision down, decapitating it. As the body fades into the darkness, Vader's helmet and breath mask fall away to reveal the face underneath — and it's Luke's own face, looking back at him. The vision fades, and Luke is left standing alone, having gone in expecting to face his enemy and instead having faced himself.

How it relates to my approach to life and career

We are often our own worst enemy, and when things go sideways there's a tendency to blame others, even when the problem is within us.

It ties back to my 1995 internship at Air Products. When I interviewed with them for a full-time role three years later, in 1998, the offer never came. For many years I didn't understand why they passed on me, and I guessed the reason was economic — I'd heard talk of financial pressure and a possible merger — or an interviewer who just didn't like me. It wasn't until I was a Group Lead making hiring recommendations for others that I realized I was the problem back then, not them (see Teammates or Competitors?). I saw my own face revealed in the helmet, just as Luke saw his.

The reflex when something goes wrong is to go looking for the enemy — the market, the interviewer, the timing, someone else's decision. That's the weapons belt: the instinct to arm yourself against an outside enemy. Luke used his, and the blow landed on himself. What actually helps is the willingness to walk in unarmed and take an honest look at what's inside, even when what's inside turns out to be you. When you feel that urge to blame something external, it's worth pausing to do the harder work of genuine self-reflection — honestly assessing whether the cause really was outside your control, or a choice you made. That's "Know thyself and those around you" and "Challenge your preconceptions, or they will challenge you" — my words to live by — pointed at the same target at once: the preconception being challenged is the one you hold about yourself.

You often can't see your own face in the helmet without help. Yoda seems to know what Luke will find before sending him in. Luke needs that jolt to grow past his own gaps. Yoda can point the way, but the hard work must be done by Luke. Yoda also allows Luke to proceed in his own way, even though Luke is only following part of the advice given. Yoda seems to anticipate that the lesson will land harder if Luke learns it his own way than if Yoda micromanages him — Yoda allows Luke to "fail small" so that in the future he does not fail when the stakes are higher. For me, it took several mentors, years of candid feedback, and finally sitting in the Group Lead's chair myself before the mask came off.

Related notable quotes from other sources

"Know thyself" (Γνῶθι σεαυτόν, Gnōthi seauton) — ancient Greek saying inscribed at the Temple of Apollo at Delphi, over 2,500 years old and traditionally attributed to the Seven Sages of Greece.
Sun Tzu, The Art of War, "Attack by Stratagem," v. 18 — "If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat."
Shakespeare, Hamlet Act 1, Scene 3 (Polonius to Laertes) — "This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man." Self-knowledge as the foundation for honest dealing with others.
Stephen Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People — Habit 5, "Seek first to understand, then to be understood."

References

The Empire Strikes Back — Wikipedia
Seven Sages of Greece — Wikipedia

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