kase hoil:-

lagn zalya nanatar pappa aani mummy punyala thode diwas rahayala yetil.

flat ghein rent var, vadgaon bridge chya ithe. 2-3 week madhun me ekata ghari jat jain. aani 1-2 weekend la me ithe gharache shopping karat jain. jenvha me ekata ghari jain tenvha ti tichya ghari jat rahil.

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mahinyatun ekada ti pan mazya barobar gad la yet jail. ganapati aani diwali la tar ti mazya barobar fix yet jail. tasech kashacha karyakram asala tari ti mazya barobar yet jail.

2-3 varshya ne aamhi flat ghein. 10 varshyachya loan period var. tasech 4 wheeler pan ghein. mag ithun friday ratri aani tithun monday morning la jata yeil. mala sadhya sudha monday morning chi hinjewadi chi bus chalel, ti vadgaon bridge chya ithe thambtech.

dararoj chi mazi life tichya pavanyanshi jast jawal hoil. aani mazya pavanyanshi lamb hot jail.

ha ek drawback rahil ki tiche pawane mala jast load hotil tenvha tu pahilya pasunach tichya pawane kade kami aani tuzya pawanya kade jast lakshya det ja.

================== -gayatri la me mhanalo hoto ki tula punyatach settel vhyayache aahe ki dusari kade hi chalel, jase ki benglore, hyderabad kinva tu jar onsite gelis tar. -me aata jari IT madhe asalo tari retairment mazi IT madhe honar nahi. me kahitari bussiness karnar mag to kontyahi citi madhe asel. mhanaje ajun 10 varsha tari me IT madhech aahe pan nanatar, life ekach asate aani mala te try karayache aahe. tenvha ti mhanali hoti ki, mala coding awadatey, aani apale job tar punya madhech tar aahet. tya mule punech.

(tya veli kadachit ti tayar zali asel pan mazya hya vicharani ti punha nahi mhatali asel)

tyaveli kadachit ticha chehara padala hota. aani hi gosht ti gharatalyanchya barobar discuss kelili asanar, tenvha tichya baba aani aai ne he aani kay navin, asale kahi nako mhanun, -ve report dila asel.

pan tase asate tar kadachit tenchya baba ni hi gosht kakanshi discuss keli asati.

================== gayatri che kahi drawbacks-

-ti ground to earth nahiye. bhaiya ne mhatlya pramane ti ajun matuare vatat navhati. bhaiya mhanala hota ki te tichya bolnyavarunach kalate.

-tasech tichya "bayako" mhanun hasanyane hi ti matuar kinva ti tayar aahe ase watat navhati. kadachit tine tasa vichar kela nasel ajun in detail.

-ti ajun gharachya secure vatawaranat aasalya sarakhi aahe, tila paisa kadhi kami padalela nahi.

-ti hushar asalya mule job pan lagech milala, tya mule tila sagalya goshti sahaj milalya aahet.

-ti citi life kadhe attract honari aahe. tila tya goshti che attraction aahe. jawal pas saglyach mulina citi che attraction wataye aaj kal. tichya friend circle pan modern aahe, shewati ti english medium la hoti. ti bhaiya sarakhi aahe, tiche vichar modern aahet, ti tila je karayache aahe te karanarach tya sathi ti ghar hi compramize karayala tayar aahe. tiche friend circle pan bhaiya sarakhe modern aahe.

-ti thodi juun watat hoti disayala. -mala ti sadhya awadayala lagali aahe (mala fakt ticha chehara, hasane lakshyat rahat aahe kinva sarakha athavat aahe tasech ti gad chi aani colony madhali aslyamule jast attraction watat aahe) pan me tichyashi s- e- x life kashi asel kinva te imagin kelele nahiye. mala tasa tishyashi vichar hi yet nahiye. mhanaje mala tiche physical attraction nahiye.

====================================09nov2017========================================================== read as continue after 2-3 pages of same date notebook notes writen in marathi.

tichya babani lagechach tya diwashi ka reply dila asel? -ti agotherach tayar nasel jase ki me notebook madhe lihalele aahe.(ti mazya sarakhi hyper zali asel) tyatach tila me pasand padalo nasel kinva maze vichar. tenvha tichya baba aai ne tila samjawale asel ki neet vichar kar tasech tyani tila future che fayade hi samajaun sangitale asel, tenvha ti punha hyper houn danga kinva rada rad keli asel. me punyal parat jato mhanun dhamaki dili asel tya mule lagechach tichya babani phone kela asel. (ti tashi bandkhor aahe mazya sarakhi, tine admission chya veli ten ase already kelele hote)

tyani thawalya pramane final nirnay ticha manala asel.

dusarya diwashi nashta padawa hota, tya mule tyani tyach diwashi chya ratri sangitale asel.

ti aata nako mhanatiy ki tila lagnch karayache nahiye? tine tichya -ve points var kadhi vichar kelela disat nahiye. tila watate ki property mule konihi tayar hotil.

mazya mate ti tichya aai chya swabhava sarakhi zali aahe. kadachit tichi aai pan tashich aahe. (tiche bolane ekadam diktu tichya aai sarakhe aahe)

tichi aai pan tya veli na vichar karata love marriege kele. ekach mulagi var thambali. sepeate ghare bandhali aani tichya aatya la seperate thevale asale udyag kelele aahet. kadachit aata kuthe ti thodi, thodi shant zali aahe.

ti pan mazya sarakha vichar karat asel, navin change la ti lagech mazya sarakhi tayar hot nasel.

nov17- te hya mahinyat punyala rahayala yetil, tichya lagna baddal kahi halachal nahi honar

dec17- tichya lagna baddal kahi halachal nahi honar

jan18- te punha vishay suru karatil

feb18- kadachit kumbhashree madhe naav nondavatil, khas karun puna mumbai chya mulana preference detil

march18- koni tari pahayala yeil

april18- punha koni tari pahayala yeil, tenvha aamachi athawan yeil. pan kitihi watale tari te punha vicharanar nahit, tyana laaj watel, kadachit vichartil jar tyna aamacha nirop +ve hota ase kakkani tya diwashi sangitale asel tar. nahitar te vicharnar nahit, karan tyanchya mule agotherch aamacha relation kharab zalela aahe. karan pahila tyanich aamachya paath lagale hote aani tyanich saglyat pahila nahi mhanun sangitale.

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tichya babani nakki kay nirop dila te kakana vichar: exact vakya sanga mhan

1. ti ajun tayar nahi 2 varshya, aani tyani +ve ase kahi bolale nahi ki tumhi thambu shakata kay ase
2. tila pasand nahi
3. tila thoda vel thambayache aahe ajun, tumhi tayar aahat kay
4. tyana ghar jawai pahije (according to my mummy)
5. other

tumhi apala nirnay tenha sangita kay? ki aamhi tayar hoto aasa?

jar tula jastch tras hot asel tar, tu ghari tyana vicharayala sang ki exact kay, ki pasand aahe pan tila ajun lagechach karayache nahiye aamhi pahije tar thoda vel thambato, ajun ek vel te doghe bolun gheudet. tumhi ekadam free open minded bola, kontahi man sanman manat dharu naka. karan ha mulanchya life cha vishay aahe.

========================================================================== ki tila pasand nahiye, mhanaje aamhi clear hou, mhanaje dusari pahayala.

mag aamachya gharache mhanatilach ki tyana pasand nahiyes tu, mhanunach tyani mhatale aahe ki ajun 2 varshya nahi karanar, mhanjech tila pasand nahiye, tumhi tumache dusari pahayala suru kara.

ajun tumchya bhetila 1 mahina zala nahiye, so he jar vicharun ghyayche asel tar vicharun ghe, mhanaje tuzya dokyatun ekdacha vichar nighun jail. mhanaje tu aaushyabhar punha kadhi mi vihcarayala pahije hoto ase mhananar nahis. life ekach aahe, hou de, bhiu nakos,laju nakos, be like G-H-A. direct pappan vichar. aamir khan sarakhe dil chahata hai.