29 nov 17 (second message) - nil41/gck GitHub Wiki

sorry me tula punha message kartoy, pan tu mazyashi punha discussion karayala tayar nahi aahes pan mala kahitari sangayache aahe mhanunach me tula ha message kartoy. mala mahiti aahe ki tu tayar nahi aahes te aani tuzya nirnyayacha mala aadar aahe. pan mala ase watat aahe ki me apalya discussion chya veli tuzyashi jast bolalelo nahiye, tya mule tu naraj zaleli asashil kinva tula mazya kadun apekshit uttare milali nasatil.

tar me pathavalela pahila message vachalas asashil (me to message just overview mhanun lihala hota, kadachit tya madhe hi kahi gairsamaj zala aahe ka he mala mahiti nahiye), tyat me lihalele aahech ki me nurvous zalelo hoto, pan me nurvous muddamhun zalelo navhato, me agother sangitalelya karanani tension madhe aalo hoto, aani tya mulech murvous zalelo hoto. me kahi gosti jya sequence ni ghadalya tya squence ne lihalelya aahet.

1. mazya pappani tuzya baba aani aai la aamchya ghari bolawalele hote, mala bhetanya sathi tyaveli tuze baba mhanale hote ki tuze 10-5 job timing aahe, aani tu engg nanatar direct job pan punyatach suru kelas. tya veli mala vatale hote ki tu back office la ten asashil, aani tula mazya pekshya kami kinva mazya yewada pagar asel. tuzya mummy ne mala package pan vicharale hote, aani te aikun tya ase kahi mhanalya nahit ki tuzi salary mazya pekshya jast aahe vaigere. tya mule mala mahiti navhate ki tuzi salary sadhya mazya peksya jast aahe. pan aamhi tumchya kade yetana maza cousin ne mala he sangitale. aani tya veli mazi tension madhe yayala surwat zali, mala watale ki tu salary mule mala reject karashil ki kay mhanun. pan sadhya mazi salary jari kami asali tari ti future madhe wadhel kadachit tuzya pekshyahi, pan mala he vakya waparayache navhate karan tula ase watale asate ki ha jara jastch boltoy ase. aani me devopps madhe aahe.

2. tyach veli tuzya pappani 60-70 lac chya flat baddal pan bolayala surwat keli, aani tumhi flat ghetalayet hi khup changali gost aahe. pan tya nanatar amache kakach swatachya flat baddal bolu lagalet, aamhi pan flats pahilele aahet, tya baddal konich kahihi bolena, tya mule pan me thoda tension madhe aalelo hoto. aamhi ajun ghetalela nahiye, pan pappa yetya may18 la retair honar aahet aani mummy pan volentari ghenar aahe. tya veli ghenar aahot.

3. tasech aapali discussion chya surweatilach tu mala question vicharala ki "tumhala kashi bayako pahije" aani te vichartana tu hasaleli hotis. ani mhanali hotis ki maza pahilach karyakram aahe. tya veli me tula confident denya sathi mhanalo hoto ki, maza pan dusarach aahe. pan tu return question kela hotas ki tithe kay zale, pan me tula sangu shakat nahi ki pahilya karyakramachya veli kay zale hote te, aani ha question mala unexpected hota, tar me to subject avoid karnyasathi me tula mhanalo hoto ki tikade me sahajach gelo hoto (mala je run time la suchale tech bolalo hoto), tar tu lagechach return question kelas ki ekade pan tumhi sahajach aalat kay? tuza ha question barobarach hota, karan kunihi ase uttar dilya nanatar kunalahi asech watanar, pan me kharech sangatoy ki me tuzya kade yetana purn tayari ne aalelo hoto. aani khup discussion karar hoto, pan mala tithun pudhe kahich suchena. me purna pane blank zalo hoto. mahun mala bayako kashi pahije yache uttar deta aalele nahi. me tyach veli tharawale hote ki mala hya prashnache uttar deta aalele nahi mhanaje maze tichya var kay impression padale asel. me tyach veli tharawale hote ki aata hichyashi limited bolayache aani next meeting madhe punha wyavastit tila sangayache.

4. same condition mazi me tula salary chya veli vicharale tya veli zali hoti.

5. tu mala hobbies vicharya hotyas tya veli mesangar hoto ki travelling mala suddha awadatey, pan me surwat pets pasun keli, aani tithehi tu mala mhanalis ki mala kutre ajibat awadat nahi, me kharokharach ajun nurvous zalo, mala mahiti aahe ki tuzi instant reaction hoti. tula kalale hote te, tya mulech tu punha prashna kela hotas, ki konate bride aahe, pan tula athawatey ka ki me tula lagechach wyavastit uttar deu shakalo navhato.

6. same conditon tu vicharale hotes ki, office la kashyane jata, tya velihi me wyavastit uttar deu shakalelo nahi, me mhanalo hoto ki, aahe na mazi suzuki aani thodya velane mhanalo hoto access. jar tu mala tya veli maze purn nav jari vicharale asate tari me sangu shakalo nasato. me disnaya varun jari thodach nurvous disalo asel pan aatun me purn pane blank zalela hoto.

7. tu mala punyat kuthe kuthe firalay vicharale hotes, mala mahiti hote ki tu ha question vicharnar, pan me tya veli tula kahich sangitale nahi karan jar me tula sangitale asate tar tu punha 3-4 return questions vicharale asates aani me kontehi uttare denyachya paristitit navhato. mhanunach me tula mhalalo hoto ki, me dar weekend la ghari jato.

8. aani tya nanatar me discusion thambvnar hoto, pan ek mahatwacha point reahila hota ,mala tuzyashi tuzya parents chya responsbilites baddal khup bolayache hote. pan mazi condtion navhati mhanun me tharwale hote ki, tula just vicharun gheu question mhanaje tula ase watanar nahi ki tyane ha prashn mala vicharalela nahiye. mhanun me tula fakt question vicharun ghetala hota. tuzya parents ni amhala he pahilach sangitalele hote, aani tya gosti var aamhi ghari discussion hi kele hote, aani tyacha kunala kontahi problem nahiye. Te apalya shejari rahtil kinva te tuzya barobar amachya ghari rahile tari chalel,