tyani ase pan tharawale asel ki,kahitari karan pahije mhanun sangayache ki nilesh ne kahihi bolalela nahiye.

khare karan asel ki, -tyachi salary kami aahe -exp kami aahe -flat nahiye -IT madhe intrest disat nahi -aai baba baddal kahihi bolalela nahiye

pan hi karane tar te direct sangu shakat nahit, karan ashyane sambandh bighadatil, tya pekshya tenchach weak point sangayacha, mhanaje te safe rahtil.

pan jar ase asate tar,

1. ti last questions chya veli naraj zali nasati.
2. tichya babani tila chiranjeev kay mhantoy he vicharare nasate.
3. tiche baba direct khare bolatat, khote bolat nahit.

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tya mule mulaga bolalela nahiye aani aai babanchya baddalahi to kahi bolalela nahiye he tyanni sangitalele kharech aahe.

jar tiche baba khote bolat nasatil tar, tyani 2 points tula sangitalele aahet.

1. amachi mulagi ekatich aahe, aani tila jar he asel tarach amhi he karato.
2. tichi icha nahi mhanun aamhi stagit kela, baki kahihi karan nahiye. (tiche baba mala direct mhanu shakat nahit ki tu tya veli kahihi bolalela nahis, kinva tu amachya resposbilities baddal hi kahihi bolalela nahiyes. tyana pan vatalele asel ki tu pan ekatach aahes aani tula pan he karane awaghad jail yewadech, ugachach jar tuzi itcha nasel tar amhi kashala tula tras deu)
3. jar ka man kashavar basala nahi tar kay karnar na. (mhanunach mhanat aahe ki me aata normal aahe, ti aata mazyashi bolude, mala ek chance dya please) ========================================================================================================================= amhi tyana total 4 calls kele, tyani aaj paryant 1 hi call kelela nahiye. 1-pappa call kele 2-me call kela (mazya mate pahila te thode naraj/chidalele disat hote) 3-2 vell me call kela pan tyani uchalala nahi 4-me call kela (tya veli tyana thodi idea aali) 5-pappa call kele

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me tya veli pressure madhe hoto aani tya mule nurvous zalelo hoto. tya mule me tumchya kade request kartoy ki tumhi mala ajun ek chance dya tichya shi discuss karnyasathi, bhalehi tya nantar punha tine nakar dila tari chalel, pan ek gost mhanaje me hya veli normal aahe, magchya vele sarakha nurvous kinva kontyahi pressure madhe nahiye. tya mule kadachit ticha nirnay badalu shakato so, please mala ek navin chance dya.

amache tichya babana sarakhe calls jaat aahet, pan jar ticha mazyat intrest nasel tar,

1. ti mala reply karnar nahi. (kadachit tya mulech tine mala reply kelela nahiye).
2. ti sarakha ghari call karu naka, maza kharokharach interest nahiye ase kahitari reply kela asata. (ti kadachit reply pan karnar nahi, ti tashi nahiye, tichi aai bolali hoti ki, ti tyala baher bhetanar nahi mhanun) kinva tine vichar suru kele astil ki kay reply dyayacha pan tevdyat amache calls suru zale.

tine sangitale asel ghri ki, maza aata kay tya mulgyat interst nahiye. tyana direct sanga tase.

pan tichya babana kay watalele aahe ki, -tyala kalalele aahe ki me kunakade tari bolalelo aahe te hyana aata kalalele aahe, aani aata tyala fakt sangayache aahe ki ka to tya veli bolalela nahiye. tyala ka tension aale hote te. -tevadhech, tyani mala ajun vicharalele nahiye ki, punha ekada charcha karayachi kay ase.

tya mule ajun tari tyani to chapter open kelela nahiye.

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me facebook var message kelya nantar tine mhatale asanar ki, hyachya dokyat tar fakt salary, flat asale vishay aahet, kadachit property, paisa hya mulech tar to mazya pathimage lagalela nahiye na? han ha tyach mule mazya pathi lagalela aahe.