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mazya mate tyana gayatri ne facebook varacha msg dhakhawala asel, tya veli tyani to msg vachala asel kinva apamche phone gelya nanatar tyani mag tila vicharalya nantar tine nahi mhanun sangitale asel. tya mulech jya veli shivaji cha call gela hota aani mazya call chya veli sudha tyani amhi tya velich nirop sangitala aahe ase sangitale.

pan kalacha call aikun tyana pan thodi idea aaleli aahe ki kharokharach ase asu shakate, tya mule tyani punha tila vicharale asel, pan tine ajun uttar dilele nasel. kinva nahi mhanali asel.

sitiation kay asel,

amachye data exchange zale tya veli ti gad la hoti, tya diwashi ti sakali geli. tya nanatar tiche parents mala bhetun gele. ti diwali chya veli aali, tya veli tyani tila sangitale asanar ki, tyachi salary aahe, ti mhanali asel ki mazya pekshya kami aahe. to cybage madhe aahe. amhi ghari jaun aalo. tyani punyachya flat cha vishayach kadhala nahi, mhanaje ajun tyancha nahiye. to tuzya pekshya thoda ujal aahe, me tyachya aai la sangun aale aahe sagale.

padawa day:

ti pahilach karyakram mhanun awarali, dress ghatala, tyachya agother chya ratri ti vichar karet asel ki tyala kay kay vicharayache, kase bolayache (aani me nivant zopun hoto, ekadam resposible nasalya sarakha)

tine pahilach aikale asanar ki, to sarakhe gad la yetoy.

tine questions vicharayala surwat keli, tumhala kashi bayako pahije, kahitari apekshya asanar ki, ki mazi bayako ashi pahije. -me kahich bolalelo nahi, ti mhanali asel hyache tar uttar dyayala pahije tyane. to kay mhanatoy ki, me pahilyanda tikade sahajach gelto, gharache gheun gele hote. mag to ekade pan gharchya force mulech aala aahe kay? ti confuse zali asel.

tya nanatar pan tyane kahihi vyavastit uttare dili nahit. aani to kay madhech business karanar mhantoy. he aani kay, mag IT madhe kay kartoyes aata. to punyatach rahanar nahi ase disatey.

aani shewati mhanaje, tyane mazya parents chya responsbilities baddal kahich bolala nahi (mhanaun tila rag aala, ti thodi chidali). to bahtek gharache force kelya mulech aalela asel. kinva me tyala disayala savali asalya mule pasand padali nasel tyamulech to bolalela nahiye.

aamhi gelya nantar tine ghari emotional houn sangitale asel ki, tyane me vicharalelya prashnanachi uttarech dili nahit. to tyala kashi bayako pahije he suddha sangu shakalela nahiye. parents chya responsbilities baddal hi to balalela nahi, ek tar tyala gharchyani force kelela aahe, kinva me tar tyala awadaleli nahiye. aani madhech to mhanatoy ki business karanar. to tyachya future baddal fix nahiye. aani shewati to parat punyat bhetuya asehi mhanalela nahi. tya mule tikadun nahi asech uttar yeil. aani apan pan nahi mhanun sanga.

tasech mazya pekshya exp kami aahe, package kami aahe, to mazya pekshya 4 varshani motha aahe tyachya exp 6-7 years cha pahije hota, pan tyala tar 2 varshyacha pan nahiye.

tiche parents tension madhe chidale asatil ki tyane ticha insult kela ki kay mhanun.

pan pappancha call gela, tenvha tyanchya babana kay bolayache kalena, mulagi tar mhanat aahe ki mulaga kahihi bolalela nahiye, aani pappa tar mhanat aahet ki mulagyala mulagai pasand aahe, mhanun te kakana sangato ase mhanale.

mag tyani ghari sangitale ki mulaga tar tayar aahe.

tya veli aai aani mulagi baba saglyani mhatale asel ki, asa kasa mulaga aahe, ithe tar kay bolalela nahi, aani direct han mhatala, eka bhetimadhech. tyanchi familihi ashi kashi aahe. evadha modha dicision 10m madhe ghetat. ektar mulgyachya manat nahi, gharache force karat asatil, kinva mulgyala mulichya vicharanche kahihi dene ghene nahiye.

aani to business ten karanar mhanatoy, punyat rahayache fix nahi, parents chya responsbilities baddal kahihi bolalela nahiye. mag aamhi ase kase sangu, nako mhanun sanga.

mhanun tyani pappana sangitale ki kakana call karato aani kela aani ti ajun tayar nahiye ase te mahanale. te pappanshi direct bolalele nahit. tyana watale asel ki kaka karan vichartil, pan tyani pan vicharale ki nahi he mahiti nahi. shivaji gijwanekar ne babana call kela, tyani nehami pramane khare te sangitale, ki mulaga kahich bolalela nahi aani tya mule ti naraj zali.

pan me monday la call lavala, tya veli baba mhanale ki, discussion che kahi nahiye, tichya manat nahiye mhanun aamhi thambawale. tyani pan mhatale asel ki hyane punha charcha karuya ase mhanala nahi, mhanaje hyachya manat aata nahi aahe. jar punha charcha karuya ase mhatale tar ghari gad la charcha karun pahuya ase mhatale asate.

tar last try mhanun pappa aai kinva fakt pappa tyanchya ithe jaun bhet ghetil aani tyana pahila samajaun sangtil. aani pappa sangtil ki amaple punha call zalya nantar magachya ravivari shivaji gijwanekar bhetala, tyala me sangitale ki mulaga thoda pressure madhe hota nurvous hota he sangnyasathi me chandrakant na phone kela hota, tar to mhanala ki mala he mahit hote, mhanaje he sagale mala sodun saglyana mahit hote. mala tar mulgyane sangitalya nantar kalale, he mala jar agother kalale asate tar me tula tyach veli phone lavala asata.

shewati mulagach mhanala, ki tyana vicharun bagha ki ajun ek chance detay kay bolnyasathi, bhalehi ti tya nanatar nahi mhanude.

aamhila aamhi kay bolalo, amache tones kay hote, situaltion kay hoti, he sagale tumhala sangun kalanar nahi, ase sangane vegale aani tyani swata anubhawalele vegale. tya mule te doghe punha bolalyashivay he solve honar nahiye.

tumhi ekekda tichya aani mulgyachya jaagi swatala theun paha, mhanaje tumhala thodi far idea yeil, aani ti surwatila hya sathi tayar honar nahi, konihi tichya jagi asate tari lavakar tayar zale nasate.

tumhi pahila mulgyashi bola, me tyala pathaun deto. tya nanatar tumhi 3 jan tyashyashi bola.

kadachit babani aani aai ne tila sangitalele nahiye ki amache call aale hote te.