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1. me tula ka pasand kele.
2. me kahi questions na ka answers dile nahit.
3. maze tuzya respnsbilities sharing baddal kay mat aahe.
4. miss communication.

tya nanatar me nurvous zalo aani je bolayache hote te rahunach gele.

me nurvous ka zalo tar done goshti mule 1. reason var lihalela aahe ani 2.tumhala kashi bayako pahije yeche uttar mala deta aale nahi. tu mala surwatilach ha question vicharalas, and this was expected question, tyach veli tu hasun mhanali hotis ki "mala bayako mahanatana hasu yetay" mala vatale hote ki tu sudha nurvous hotiyes, mhanun me tula comfort feel karnyasathich mhanalo hoto ki, maza pan dusrach karyakram aahe. pan tu lagechach mala dusara question vicharas hotas ki "tithe kay zale?" aani ha question me expect kela navhata, aani me tula apalya pahilyach bheti madhe kase sangu shakato ki "thithe kay zalele hote" tar to topic avoid karanya sathi me vichar na karatach mhanalo hoto ki "me tikade sahajach gelo hoto".(me thithe sahaj gelo navhato) aani me he kay bolalo, hyacha vichar karat hotoch to paryant tu dusata cross question vicharalas. "tumhi ethe pan family force mule aalat kay?" me akasharsha shock zalo hoto. mala mahiti aahe ki tu ha question mudamhun vicharalela navhatas. jar mala sudha ase koni uttar dile asate tar me sudha hach question vicharala asata. pan tya mule, mala tya prashanache uttarach deta aale nahi. tya veli ajun pressure madhe gelo ki mala hya commmon prashnache uttar deta aalele nahi, hichya var maze kay impression padale asanar.

me thithech tharavale hote ki, dya diwasa sathi tuzyashi fakt bakichya gosti bolun ghyayachya. mhanun me amachya family aani etar topics kadhale. pan tula me nurvous zalo hoto he janawalele nasel. tya mule tuze questions suru hote. aani mala kontyahi topic var manmokale panane bolata aale nahi. aani tya mule maze vichar tula kalalele nahit.

sagalyat shewati me tula tu ekati aahes tar tuze expectations kay aahet? ha question vicharalela hota. mala fakt tya diwashi tula janaun dyayache hote ki tuzya sathi ha imp topic aahe aani he mala mahiti aahe. aani tya baddal tuzyashi dusarya bheti madhe bolayache. me tya veli bolalelo nahi, karan shewati shewati mala kay bolayache he kalat navhate, tula kahitari vichitra sangitale hote, ki retairment nantar business ki asache kahitari mazya mana madhe ase kahihi nasatana.

tar, tuze parents aani me bhetalo hoto, tyach veli tyani tu sangitaleli gost aamhala clear keleli hoti. tyani sangitalele hote ki, te shejari rahatil, tyanchi responsbility aani lagna nanatar tuza odha ha tyanchya kadech jast rahil ase. aani tya nantar amachya family che hya var discussion sudha zalele hote, kunala kahihi problem nahiye.

maze mhanane ase hote ki, tuzya parents chi responsbiliti share karayala mala awadel. tyanchya babatit tu je decisions gheshil tyala maza pathimba asel. te shejari rahudet kinva tu tyana apalya ghari raha mhanalis tari chalel. me saudha mazya parents na mulaga mhaun ekatach aahe. tyamule maze parents jase mazya samor rahatil tasech tuze parents tuzya samor rahatil. ashya gostin madhe apan mutual understanding dakhawayal have. karan jase maze parents mazya sathi important aahet, tyani mazya sathi khup kahi kelale aahe. tasech tuze parents tuzya sathi important asatil.

hya point var mala tuzyashi ajun khup kahi discussion karayache hote. pan tya veli me bolu shakalo nahi hi mazi chuk zali, aani aata tu aikayala tayar nahiyes.

tumachya ithun amhi nighalya nanatar ghari jatanach pappa mummy ne mala vicharale hote ki tu kashi vatali. me tyana mnhanalo hoto ki "tichya parents ne sangitaleli tashich aahe, aani pasand aahe, pan mala tichyashi punha charcha karayachi aahe ase tyana sanga". pan me tyana sangitale nahi ki me tuzya barobar imp points discuss kelele nahiyet. aani tila maze vicharach kalale nasatil. gharatalyani mala vicharale hote ki kay charcha zali ? me tyana mhatale ki ratri sangen. pan hi gost me mazya cousin la sangitaleli hoti. tar amhi doghani tharawale hote ki he sagale ratri jewatana ghari sangayache. karan tumhala ajun 2-3 diwasane nirop dyayacha aahe ase tharale hote. aani tumhala nirop "mulagyane manmokale panane discussion kelele nahiye aani tya mule mulagi la tyachya manatil vichar kalalele nasatil tar tyana punha punya madhe charcha karu dya" asa nirop dyayala sangayacha.

pan tya sandhyakali pappana konitari mhanale ki aaj changala diwas aahe, tasech amhi dusrya diwashi gavihi janar hoto, mhanun achanakach me ghari nasatana tumhala tyani nirop dila ki "pasand aahe".

karan me jase tharawalele hote tyachya pekshya velgyach ghadat hote. me tyatach tula kahitari vichitra bololo hoto, ki retairment nantar business ki asache kahitari, mala aata awathawatach nahiye ki me ase kase mhanalo, mazya mana madhe ase kahihi nasatana. tya mule me tula hya velihi manat nahiye ase kahitarich bolun jain

(tya mulech mazya kadun "tula kahi vicharayache aahe tar vichar" he sentence repeat hot hote)