s-2 -- te gad la yetil s-3 -- te busy asatil m-4 -- karyakram asel t-5 -- pappa call karatil meeting sathi, ti sakali nighun yeil w-6 -- me tichya aai babanshi bhet gheil aani tyana convence karin ki tichyashi bolnyasathi t-7 f-8 s-9 s-10 -- sunday la meeting gheil tichyashi

tencha view:

ticha: to kahihi bolat nahiye, bahutek me tyala awadaleli disat nahiye, tyane mazya aai babanchya responsbilities baddal hi tyache mat vyakt kelele nahiye. aani ase to direct kase kay pasand aahe ase mhanu shakato.

baba: tyane bolalela nahi, mhanaje ti tyala pasand nasel. aani to amachi responsbilities sathi hi tayar nasel. pan tyala tar pasand aahe ase to mhanatoy. pan tichya manatale kay kalat nahiye. ti nahi mhanat aahe, bahutek tiche man basalele nahiye. rahude.

ti agother chidaleli hoti, pan maza messages aani calls ne ti manatun viraghalaleli asel, pan ti direct ghari kase sangayache mhanun tayar nasel, pan tiche baba te olkhat nasatil.

tya mule tiche gharache tichi bhet ghyayala tayar hotil ki nahi he mahit nahi.

kay hoil actually:-

jar tyana watalech ki doghana ekada punha charcha karayachi aahe tar te sunday lach amhala call kartil. karan pappa ni tyana vicharalele aahe ki kanya pan yenar aahe kay mhanun. mhanaje tyana kalale asel ki tyana tichyashi bolayache aahe te.

jar tyana aata fakt nahi mhanunach nirop sangayacha asel tar mag matra te tenchya karyakram zalya nantarach call karatil. aani pappa mummy la bhetun nahi mhanatil. ###############################################################

mahanje conclusion aase aahe ki,

tichya aai babana kahihi problem nahiye.

fakt ti tayar nahiye.

ticha ego dukhawala gelela aahe. tya mule tine ghari sangitale aahe ki, tine lagnacha vishay manatun kadhalela aahe.

tya mule fakt mich tichyashi bolu shakato. tya mule mala tichyashi fakt ekda navyane charcha karu dya.

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mummy la sang ki, jar te second discussion sathi nahi mhanale tar, tu ticha mobile no ghe aani tu tichyashi bolun ghe.

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20oct ti chidaleli hoti, tichya cheharya varun sagale sangtahet. tila me questions chi uttare dileli nahi aahet. tasech tichya aai babanchya prashnache pan me bolalelo nahiye.

tya mule ti nakkich fakt tya mulech chidaleli aahe, bakiche kahich karan nahi aahe. tu swatala tichya jagi theun bagh, jar ti tichya aai babanchya baddal emotional asel tar ti tenchya sathi kunalahi nahi mhanu shakate.

tya nanatar tine lagnacha vishay dokyatun kadhala.

tya nanatar tine he sagale visarale hote, tine normal life jagane suru kele hote.

achanak maza asa facebook var message aala, tyat sorry pan navhate. tine mhatale asel ki ha nakkich shahana nahi aahe.

to paryant tiche aai baba pan punyat aale. pappancha tyana call gela. maza call gela. mag tyani tila sangitale asatil ki tyala mala bhetayache aahe, mag tine ghari sangitale asel ki tyacha mala message pan aala hota. aani to tine dakhawala asel, aani mhanali asel ki tyala hya sathich bhetayache aahe, sorry pan mhanala nahiye. aani tya madhehi tyane parents chi reposnbilities ghenya baddal lihalele nahiye. tine ghari nahich mhatale asel. tyanche flat che kame pan suru zali.

tiche baba ni pan mala avoid karayacha prayatna kela. te pan mhanale asatil ki to ajun responsbilities baddal kahihi bolalela nahiye. to fakt betayache aahe yewadech mhanat aahe, tyachya manatale kahihi kalat nahiye.

gijawanekar cha call gela. tya veli tyana me ajun responsbilities baddal bolalelo navhato, tya mule tyani same uttar dile, ki tine dokyatun lagnacha vishay kadhalela aahe.

pan me tyana monday la bolalo responsbilities baddal, aani sangitale ki message convey kara tila, jar tyani message tila sangitale asel tar ti kadachit thodishi tayar zali asel. kadachit tya mulech tiche baba pappanshi vyavastit bolale asatil.

tyana aata idea aali asel, te vichar karit asatil ki aata kay karayache.

pappa mummy: to nurvous zala hota, tya mule bolalela nahiye, aani tyane amhala tyane lagechach sangitalele nahi, nahitar aamhi tumhala tyach veli sangitale asate. aani amhala tumhi shejari ten rahal ya baddal kahihi problem nahi, ti ekati aahe mhatalyavar hi gost manyach karavi lagel. aaplya chaughanchihi te doghe kalaji ghetil. aani aamhi sudha punyat flat ghenarach aahe.

baba aai: pan ti sadhya lagna sathi tayar nahiye.

pappa mummy: ho, jar mulgyane tichya main prashnala uttar dile nahi tar konati mulagi tayar hoil. tya mule amhi kay mhanatoy, aaj diwas pan changala aahe, tar ti doghe 10-15 min bolun gheudet, tiche pan sagale dought clear hou det. aani tya nanatar ti nirnay gheu de, kadachit ticha nirnay badalel. aani nahi tar ti dusaryanda sudha nahi mhanu shakate, apan kay gharachech aahot, amhala kahihi watanar nahi.

============== VIMP: kahihi kara samora samor aamache discussion karayala pathava.

tiche baba aai tayar asudet kinva nasudet, tyana discussion sathi tayar karach konyahi paristhiti madhe. ethe man sanman kay madhi ghyayacha nahi, aani ekadam professional, ghai na karata bola.

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sorry me tula punha message kartoy, pan tu mazyashi punha discussion karayala tayar nahi aahes pan mala kahitari sangayache aahe mhanunach me tula ha message kartoy. mala mahiti aahe ki tu tayar nahi aahes te aani tuzya nirnyayacha mala aadar aahe. pan mala ase watat aahe ki me apalya discussion chya veli tuzyashi jast bolalelo nahiye, tya mule tu naraj zaleli asashil kinva tula mazya kadun apekshit uttare milali nasatil.

tar me pathavalela pahila message vachalas asashil (me to message just overview mhanun lihala hota, kadachit tya madhe hi kahi gairsamaj zala aahe ka he mala mahiti nahiye), tyat me lihalele aahech ki me nurvous zalelo hoto, pan me nurvous muddamhun zalelo navhato, me agother sangitalelya karanani tension madhe aalo hoto, aani tya mulech murvous zalelo hoto. me kahi gosti jya sequence ni ghadalya tya squence ne lihalelya aahet.

1. mazya pappani tuzya baba aani aai la aamchya ghari bolawalele hote, mala bhetanya sathi tyaveli tuze baba mhanale hote ki tuze 10-5 job timing aahe, aani tu engg nanatar direct job pan punyatach suru kelas. tya veli mala vatale hote ki tu back office la ten asashil, aani tula mazya pekshya kami kinva mazya yewada pagar asel. tuzya mummy ne mala package pan vicharale hote, aani te aikun tya ase kahi mhanalya nahit ki tuzi salary mazya pekshya jast aahe vaigere. tya mule mala mahiti navhate ki tuzi salary sadhya mazya peksya jast aahe. pan aamhi tumchya kade yetana maza cousin ne mala he sangitale. aani tya veli mazi tension madhe yayala surwat zali, mala watale ki tu salary mule mala reject karashil ki kay mhanun. pan sadhya mazi salary jari kami asali tari ti future madhe wadhel kadachit tuzya pekshyahi, pan mala he vakya waparayache navhate karan tula ase watale asate ki ha jara jastch boltoy ase. aani me devopps madhe aahe.

2. tyach veli tuzya pappani 60-70 lac chya flat baddal pan bolayala surwat keli, aani tumhi flat ghetalayet hi khup changali gost aahe. pan tya nanatar amache kakach swatachya flat baddal bolu lagalet, aamhi pan flats pahilele aahet, tya baddal konich kahihi bolena, tya mule pan me thoda tension madhe aalelo hoto. aamhi ajun ghetalela nahiye, pan pappa yetya may18 la retair honar aahet aani mummy pan volentari ghenar aahe. tya veli ghenar aahot.

3. tasech aapali discussion chya surweatilach tu mala question vicharala ki "tumhala kashi bayako pahije" aani te vichartana tu hasaleli hotis. ani mhanali hotis ki maza pahilach karyakram aahe. tya veli me tula confident denya sathi mhanalo hoto ki, maza pan dusarach aahe. pan tu return question kela hotas ki tithe kay zale, pan me tula sangu shakat nahi ki pahilya karyakramachya veli kay zale hote te, aani ha question mala unexpected hota, tar me to subject avoid karnyasathi me tula mhanalo hoto ki tikade me sahajach gelo hoto (mala je run time la suchale tech bolalo hoto), tar tu lagechach return question kelas ki ekade pan tumhi sahajach aalat kay? tuza ha question barobarach hota, karan kunihi ase uttar dilya nanatar kunalahi asech watanar, pan me kharech sangatoy ki me tuzya kade yetana purn tayari ne aalelo hoto. aani khup discussion karar hoto, pan mala tithun pudhe kahich suchena. me purna pane blank zalo hoto. mahun mala bayako kashi pahije yache uttar deta aalele nahi. me tyach veli tharawale hote ki mala hya prashnache uttar deta aalele nahi mhanaje maze tichya var kay impression padale asel. me tyach veli tharawale hote ki aata hichyashi limited bolayache aani next meeting madhe punha wyavastit tila sangayache. ############################################################################################

mulagicha jara dagamalit distay jara nanatar baghuya----- baba to kaka 18:00

10-12 prash vicharale pan prashnanchi kay uttare milali nahi, tya mule tenchya manatale kay samajale nahi------- baba to gijwanekar (by kaka) 19:00

21 oct baba to gijawanekar: tyani kaka na sangitale hote mhane, ki porgine ek 5-6 prashn vicharale, aani jara namargi dakhawayla lagali aahe. aani baghuaa. ase te mhanale hote.

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